excaliburn9250: "When I knew dAmN wELl that you were on my bLaCkLisT" nah man this RDM sounds like a nightmare to raid with

Kuntitled: This is why, as an adult, i only ever raid with other adults.

AlexHernandez-mo9bb: Here before Xenos reacts

feral_m: Thanks for sharing, If people cant take (and discuss) criticism like adults, good luck with any Ultimate. Also, why do I get a feeling that the RDM's blacklist is probably nearly full - lovely attitude.

madelinewoof7544: Poor Dancer, I feel bad for them. I hope they get better soon

nohandlemebruh: Please stop censoring player names cause I wanna block red mage

StarRoseDragon5: It seems like this group can’t handle taking criticism. As far as I could tell, the GNB was only bringing up things they observed that could be worked on. It didn’t look like they said anything out of turn. If it was dumb observations, the party could have easily discussed through them and explained the reasonings on why. Instead everyone took it personally. More so the RDM. “Don’t you dare come after my boyfriend” is such a cringe response to feedback. I am sure the DRG can fight his own battles, her butting in and making it her business is so unhinged. It would be nice to see a longer version of what happened so that there is context, but as far as I could tell, it seems like it’s better to drop the people that can’t/won’t listen to criticism

MrJjjakey: I dunno if there was any other context or anything that would make this make sense, but on it's face "so and so's damage could be a bit higher" leading to tears is crazy

livamyyo: Raiding with women kekw

natpat4094: why do they sound like children lmao

tbh more context is needed? rdm shouldnt have raged ofc so its a terrible look for them but we dont know what happened so ye. it seems like everyone in the static is disagreeing/raging at this GNB but at the same time what they are saying seems pretty mild, maybe they are actually a bad player

dksnaught: Ha that Red Mage needs to chill out and ask themselves the same; bet they screwed up as well.

smileplease_91: That went from 0-100 so quickly, holy crap.

shiro12okami69: It’s also an issue of modern raiding in ffxiv in general,ultimates getting more and more demanding especially during endwalker,and not nearly enough players can keep up with the difficulty increase. FRU was a nice change in comparison to Top or DSR. Hopefully it’s not going down hill next ultimate…

But yeah for anyone interested in Ultimates especially the endwalker once, I wouldn’t recommend it unless you are 100% sure that you are an amazing player which is consistent, fast learning and possess enough endurance to survive all the drama around it, it’s miserable xD

xapapetsugaming2311: Did everyone discuss expectations at the beginning? Was there a time frame put in place? These are valid questions. If the expectations are in place and the two new players are holding everyone back, then they need to leave the group, and you need to recrute other members. If expectations and time frames weren't discussed, that's your problem.

When you start a static, you must have everyone on the same page, and if plans change, you need to discuss them with the static and make sure everyone is okay with it. If 1 person doesn't agree and everyone else does, that 1 person needs to leave or suck it up. If everyone disagrees with your plan, you need to suck it up and do what's best for the static.

Plain and simple, this seems like an issue that could have been resolved with a static discussion to set expectations.

kytele: my static kicked me for refusing to use xiv combo while progging

Valvadrix: I see some of the comments assume the Red Mage is yelling at the Dancer, but the two of them are on the same side here. The Dancer starts the whole thing by getting upset at the Gunbreaker for calling out the Dragoon's DPS in chat, which brings the Red Mage's attention to the message. They even include the Dancer in the group of people who expected to go fast, so they probably joined together. The Gunbreaker is who's being yelled at.

becks5198: Id report the red mage personally. Was being a pos as well.

Rabauke1186: A big hug for the dancer girl. If the Paladin is really a good leader, he'll kick the RDM lady out. Someone like that doesn't belong in a raid group.

akaneyoshinaga425: just about burst out laughing when the dancer started crying

Chimkiins: So what ended up happening? Everyone is level 90 outside the instance so this happened before DT.

Isredel11: What on eeaaarrrtthhhh?

Everything GNB said was fairly benign. If the worst that they could have pointed out about your performance were slight movement issues (whether it’s true or not), that’s a damn near compliment. Seemed like they genuinely wanted to know where they could improve too so….?

And while the RDM’s frustrations about letting in people who are fresh on prog are legitimate, this probably could have been aired out during casting and not after a rough night of raiding?

Honestly this whole exchange baffles me and only mildly makes more sense if you assume emotions and frustrations are high after a rough raid night.

Heart goes out to the DNC.

omensoffate: This is why I don’t play this game. Filled with cringe kids

agsdedluxferre2955: Red mage seems mean but w/o context that makes since. Two fresh people during one of the hardest pieces of content can be really rough especially if they sold themselves better than they actually are. Dancer also isn't mentally sound enough for Prog I know it's mean, I myself am a dogshit player at this game I bet I wouldn't even get past phase 1 lol!

Moorisa_: I've only played FFXIV with IRL friends and solo. To me, scheduling a specific time to play a video game every day just sounds wild. Esp. with a family/job/etc.

From that perspective I can't believe this is something you considered worth uploading, and others consider worth watching. Nothing even happened; some girl was just mad her boyfriend was critiqued. 'Not holding back'? That was the weakest bout of anger I've ever seen. Over nothing. But you uploaded it. Uploading your petty arguments about nothing with your friends so you can gratify yourself just makes you look bad. Worse than everyone else involved I'd say. It's not 'for entertainment purposes' because nothing about it was entertaining or beyond the realm of mundane normal life.

yamchayaku: that person getting all pissy is a red mage. Just replace her. And don't raid with children like that in the future.

superjoran2899: this game has a huge issue with glorifying bad players and this video is further proof

CypherD2: I really REALLY want to block that red mage and white mage. Gunbreaker did nothing wrong

Feb 01 2025

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